Imagine that you have dated a very special person to you for a few months and you assume that he feels the same soul mate type connection that you do. Then you bring up the question about the future of your relationship and he stalls and says nothing. You feel as though you have brought up a taboo subject because he's pulled back. You wonder if he will ever be ready to do the big 'c' word.
The answer really isn't magical, although the results may seem that way. Often times, the man is just as concerned about being rejected or refused as you are. There may be other issues that could be holding him back, perhaps even some that you really should know about before saying "yes". Here are some tips to weave your own "spell" to take the relationship to the next level.
1. Pick the right time - This is one of the most important things to think about. Pick a time when you are both in a good mood and the place is quiet with no distracting energy around either of you like TV or a football game. Then ask him if he is interested in a committed relationship with you.
2. Be aware of your body language - Nothing tells all like bad body language. Your body language has so much information in it that you may not be aware of. Folded arms across your chest suggests 'closed' and defensive.
3. The truth can set you (both) free - So the topic of commitment has come up and it seems to be a sticking point in what had been a promising relationship. What is needed is for the two of you to share, truthfully, your feelings on the topic. Here is where you may discover why he fears to give himself totally to the relationship. It may well be his own fear that you would reject him or something in his past. If so, you have the opportunity to support and nurture him and, in turn, can receive that which your heart desires.
4. Your quest is important - Even if he lets you know that maybe the timing is just off right now or that he isn't really emotionally ready yet to commit, this is when you have the opportunity to decide if you want to continue on and wait, or end it.
Once you have the feelings that he is Mr. Right and he has told you how much you mean to him, it feels like a magical connection. Committing to another person and vice versa, can almost feel like the earth revolving around the sun - truly magical.
The answer really isn't magical, although the results may seem that way. Often times, the man is just as concerned about being rejected or refused as you are. There may be other issues that could be holding him back, perhaps even some that you really should know about before saying "yes". Here are some tips to weave your own "spell" to take the relationship to the next level.
1. Pick the right time - This is one of the most important things to think about. Pick a time when you are both in a good mood and the place is quiet with no distracting energy around either of you like TV or a football game. Then ask him if he is interested in a committed relationship with you.
2. Be aware of your body language - Nothing tells all like bad body language. Your body language has so much information in it that you may not be aware of. Folded arms across your chest suggests 'closed' and defensive.
3. The truth can set you (both) free - So the topic of commitment has come up and it seems to be a sticking point in what had been a promising relationship. What is needed is for the two of you to share, truthfully, your feelings on the topic. Here is where you may discover why he fears to give himself totally to the relationship. It may well be his own fear that you would reject him or something in his past. If so, you have the opportunity to support and nurture him and, in turn, can receive that which your heart desires.
4. Your quest is important - Even if he lets you know that maybe the timing is just off right now or that he isn't really emotionally ready yet to commit, this is when you have the opportunity to decide if you want to continue on and wait, or end it.
Once you have the feelings that he is Mr. Right and he has told you how much you mean to him, it feels like a magical connection. Committing to another person and vice versa, can almost feel like the earth revolving around the sun - truly magical.
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Get your psychic readings and tarot readings by master psychic Lou Raedwulfe and be sure to check out his posts on the psychic blog for his articles on love, relationships and soul mates.
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